In 19 years of being in education, I have watched various trends and philosophies cycle through. However, one element has been constant, the concept of modeling. Isn’t this the most basic, fundamental thing about teaching? Should it even be called teaching if modeling is not occurring?
Today, my parents celebrate their wedding anniversary. Their partnership epitomizes a 49-year continual lesson. Their students are Scott (my much older brother), Jeff (my not-as-good-looking-as-me brother), and me (the absolute favorite child). With repetition, the learning from these lessons becomes permanent. Just like with some of our students, as a family, we understand that Jeff might require more repetition than Scott and I. Anyway, here is a list of a few of the lessons modeled and learned…
- Your family comes first, no matter the circumstances.
- When you start a job in your marriage or partnership it will forever be yours. My mom has been taking out the trash for 49 years!
- The minute an ungrateful child starts complaining about the meal being served, the husband’s job is to use his giant man-sized fingers to issue a flick to the perpetrator. This gesture making it clear we appreciate the food in front of us and the beautiful woman who prepared the meal.
- A significant height difference doesn’t matter when love is involved.
- The vow “better or worse” truly means better or worse.
- Egg carriers, tractors, and bulls do not always make the best gifts to your wife.
- Prayer and positive thoughts work, and God is always present!
- Flipping a coin will solve any dispute among the children.
- As a couple, if you can still love each other after working cattle together then anything is truly possible.